Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies - Tara Schuster

Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies

By Tara Schuster

  • Release Date: 2020-02-18
  • Genre: Self-Improvement
Score: 4.5
4.5
From 110 Ratings

Description

Brutally honest, often hilarious, hard-won lessons in learning to love and care for yourself from a former vice president at Comedy Central who was called “ahead of her time” by Jordan Peele

“You’re going to want Tara Schuster to become your new best friend.”—Glennon Doyle, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Untamed

“Compelling, persuasive, and useful no matter where you are in your life.”—Chelsea Handler, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Life Will Be the Death of Me


By the time she was in her late twenties, Tara Schuster was a rising TV executive who had worked for The Daily Show with Jon Stewart and helped launch Key & Peele to viral superstardom. By all appearances, she had mastered being a grown-up. But beneath that veneer of success, she was a chronically anxious, self-medicating mess. No one knew that her road to adulthood had been paved with depression, anxiety, and shame, owing in large part to her minimally parented upbringing. She realized she’d hit rock bottom when she drunk-dialed her therapist pleading for help.

Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies is the story of Tara’s path to re-parenting herself and becoming a “ninja of self-love.” Through simple, daily rituals, Tara transformed her mind, body, and relationships, and shows how to

• fake gratitude until you actually feel gratitude
• excavate your emotional wounds and heal them with kindness
• identify your self-limiting beliefs, kick them to the curb, and start living a life you choose
• silence your inner frenemy and shield yourself from self-criticism
• carve out time each morning to start your day empowered, inspired, and ready to rule
• create a life you truly, totally f*cking LOVE

This is the book Tara wished someone had given her and it is the book many of us desperately need: a candid, hysterical, addictively readable, practical guide to growing up (no matter where you are in life) and learning to love yourself in a non-throw-up-in-your-mouth-it’s-so-cheesy way.

Reviews

  • Awesome book!!

    5
    By chvmteSS
    Awesome book. Really needed to hear a lot of what she points out. Very encouraging and inspiring!!
  • Lovely and Authentic

    5
    By obrezalaur
    Somehow this book found me right when I needed it to. I loved every second of the tender stories, advice, and rituals for growth that were presented in this book. This is a warm and fuzzy resource for anyone who is learning to love themselves without judgement. This is a book that I will refer back to over and over again.
  • Buy Yourself the F’cking Lilies

    5
    By summeronli
    This book made me laugh out loud while teaching and reminding me just how glorious life can be. It simply rang true.
  • Great book!!!

    5
    By heidieller
    So glad this book found me— so insightful, honest, affirming and funny! heidieller
  • Inspiring

    5
    By new budget guy
    Great read, fun and with actions you can take.
  • Get this Book

    5
    By Cbree74
    Love Love Love this book! So many great tips to better your self and your thinking. Tara is a great storyteller and a very easy read. This book changed my life. I Will read it over & over.
  • Do Yourself A Favor & Read This

    5
    By Livmya
    I went to Target one night because I had nothing better to do, walked by the book section, saw this book, and I was instantly drawn in. I like to read, but I’m not the biggest reader. But something about the title spoke my language and I knew I couldn’t leave without it. The most beautifully written book. So incredibly relatable and real that I felt as if I was the author. It changes you from the moment you pick it up. It was exactly what I needed without even knowing it. Tara, you are a G and I love you.
  • Buy Yourself this F@#$&ng Book!

    5
    By Read and Repeat
    I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this book!!! In fact, after it percolates, I’m re-reading it again! My very unhappy childhood left a hole that was impossible to repair through other memoirs of abuse or self-help books (the juxtaposition teetered on self-induced panic attacks). Tara’s book takes you on a journey of discovering hope, practical suggestions that work, laughing out loud so often you turn the pages furiously to laugh out loud even HARDER - all told in her distinctly innate style of true warmth that feels like a constant hug!